Fostering Independence

An exciting part of the toddler years is the transition from dependent to more independent! Here are some tips from the experts on fostering this independence in your little one.

Set limits and create reasonable routines
- Make sure you take the time to discuss any rules you may have and why they are important to follow
  - Example: We always buckle up in the car so we can be safe and protected
- Create a simple routine for the morning and evening that your child can reasonably accomplish on their own
  - Example: Morning routine: 1. Use the bathroom 2. Brush your teeth and hair 3. Get dressed 4. Put pajamas in the laundry bin
Encourage your child to get involved in simple daily tasks
- Assign reasonable responsibilities based on your child’s developmental stage
  - Remember this takes practice! Praise your little one for making an effort and offer assistance when needed until they get the hang of it.
- Allow them to pick out their own clothing
  - This can be simplified by giving them a few different options to choose from
  - Ask your child to dress themselves as well!
- Encourage your little one to participate in grooming
  - Let them brush their teeth and hair in the morning
  - Ask them to place their dirty laundry in the clothes bin
Talk and Listen!
- Talk: praise your little one’s successes and give support when they fall short
  - Share your own successes and failures with your one from when you were learning independence!
- Listen: encourage your child to ask questions and assume more responsibility when they are ready
- These discussions make children feel important, adult-like, and that their opinions and thoughts matter

As always, if you have any questions or concerns regarding fostering independence for your child, please contact your pediatrician. Here is a helpful link from the American Academy of Pediatrics:

https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/preschool/Pages/Growing-Independence-Tips-for-Parents-of-Young-Children.aspx